Everyone has been wounded at one time or another. In the most serious cases, these experiences affect every aspect of our lives – especially personal relationships. Some may end up suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) requiring years or even a lifetime of treatment. How do you cope with your deepest wounds? Should you take medication? Let’s find out more.
Take meds or not?
Today’s mental health sciences have come a long way in the treatment of PTSD, depression, and anxiety. Perhaps the greatest advances have been in the removal of the stigma surrounding these problems. These are true medical issues, and no one should ever feel ashamed about them. Instead it’s important to get help. In some cases, physiological counseling and medications are a necessary part of recovery.
One mistake people make, however, is believing that pills contain some kind of magic power. If you need medication, take it as prescribed, but be realistic about the limitations of science. Never forget that the deepest healing comes from God’s love and mercy. This is where you should place your trust.
Don’t make them weapons
It’s very common for us to weaponize our wounds. We lash out and hurt others and ourselves. Seek to recognize when this happens, and ask God to free you from this behavior. When you stop causing new pain due to past wounds, you can then start the healing process.
One common way we hurt ourselves and others is by shutting out the world. This happens since you’re afraid to get hurt again. Nobody wants to feel pain, that’s for sure. But instead of closing in, let your wounds be the doorway where God enters your heart. This can be scary and complicated, so it might help to have a spiritual guide accompany you.
This process doesn’t mean you shouldn’t protect yourself, but your heart doesn’t have to be imprisoned either. Instead, God will give you a strong heart that can feel, give, and love again.
From victim to victorious
Those who have been wounded deeply are truly victims. You didn’t ask for suffering. Still, sometimes we fall into the trap of labeling ourselves as a victim above everything else. This is exactly how Satan wants you to think – that you are helpless and hopeless. Don’t believe this lie.
Look to Jesus to transform you from victim to victorious. How? Regain your dignity through the healing mercy of God. Your victory rests in saying:
“Yes. I was hurt. I was wounded seriously. But that was not the final chapter in my life. God lifted me up again. He healed me, gave me strength, and now I move forward. God gave me meaning because I know for sure he loves me. He showed me this by forgiving me and giving me his Son. Jesus knows how much I suffered, since he suffered too. But Christ rose up again, and I did too.
I am God’s child. Nothing and nobody can ever, ever take that away from me.”
The victory doesn’t stop there. You see, in God’s economy, nothing is wasted. The wounded and broken become transformed into agents of healing and grace. Many times, only a person who has suffered can help others who suffer from the same wounds.
As you are healed, you become the hands, voice, and heart of Christ that heals others. Your life transforms into a celebration where angels sing praises about how the love of God gave you your life back again.
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
This post is dedicated to my friend Jan and her brother Daniel. God bless you! – Vince
A prayer for the broken
A prayer for when you feel you can’t go on
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23 thoughts on “From Victim to Victorious”
I pray that God’s will be done in my life He knows best let him, have his way in my marriage in my children, and my life Amen.
I am supporting you in my prayers Kennth. May the Lord bless, protect, and guide you and your family.
I was in a 16 yr abusive relationship. This past time I repeated the cycle I was hurt beyond what I ever could’ve imagined in more ways than just physically. I am psychologically emotionally and mentally scarred for life. Yet I still forgive and have love for this man. He is now n prison will be out n 4 mo. And I need strength courage wisdom and financial growth to be to leave and move far away frm this town as I can with my daughter. I knw now it’s for the best and sake of my girls but have only have 1 in my custody unfortunately. Lost my only and 1st son. And so much more. I cannot lose anything else especially my baby girl. Help. Pray for me. Guide me lord. Give me strength give me light. Give me truth.
Dear Lisa… You’ve been through so so much. You are a living miracle. The fact that you found a way to forgive is incredible. It inspires me.
You are on the right track…. seek God’s advice. Ask for his promises and rest in those promises…
O loving Lord, pour out your mercy over Liza… send her your protection and guidance… pour out your Spirit over her and her family… show her your will for her life O Lord… let her trust in you… give her comfort and peace… heal her, free your child O Lord… in Jesus name, Amen.
I will be praying for you Liza… with God, you can do it!
Please, I am broken my husband Caleb has asked me for divorce. I have been praying for my marriage and asking for healing the heart of my husband. Please pray for my marriage to heal hurts and restore marriage .
Thanks so much,
I am praying for you Mariza and your marriage.
Again thank you for your courage and wisdom
Wow. I am sharing parts of this on my social media. Giving credit to the site & Vince. Thank you
Thank you Key… I appreciate you sharing. Many God bless you with his abundant grace.