It’s not wrong to pray for change, especially when you suffer. In some cases though, there might be no way out. Let God transform your pain into something glorious. The world tells you to avoid suffering at all costs – even if it costs you your soul. Jesus tells you , “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest,” (Matthew 11:28).
Imitate Christ and give the full glory to God.
Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.
1 Peter 4:12-13